In the analysis of the anxiety, the subject is able to identify its source as the lack of a clearly defined role. In identifying the lack of role, the subject further understands this as an impediment to the natural development of the relationship. Having identified chemistry and compatibility, the subject finds interest in moving forward, but cannot. The subject should feel insecure in the anxiety of not knowing the outcome or not having obtained a point-blank admission or clearly stated intentions. The subject, however, is secure having simply identified the source of the anxiety. She is happy, and decisions are left for another day.

I want to walk with you in the sun.

After 16 years, it took her four months to come to conclusions.
Yes, it could have worked, but can you ask someone to change
Their character, intrinsic values of who they are?
Or do you leave to find someone more compatible?